It could all be so simple

It could all be so simple

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In my Lauren Hill voice “It could all be so simple, but you'd rather make it hard.” Thank you, Lauren Hill, for making this song, your lyrics speak volumes to me. I've been in past relationships/ siturationship where I realize the number one problem that it didn’t work out was communication. It’s not hard to open your mouth and talk. If you are having a bad day, then tell him, he doing something that irks you then tell him and believe me that goes both ways of communicating.

Communication is all about engaging in conversation with each other. If my ex-was graded for his communication skills, he would fail. Something so simple and he just didn’t put any effort. Yes, I have my flaws, but don’t waste my time wanting to make it work, and you keep doing the same thing. If only we could have talked things out and he told me how he felt then we wouldn’t be broken up. He just didn't want to change. Ladies, you cannot change a man, he has to want to improve on his own. So rather than I stay with him, I had to call it quits. No love lost. I found myself being the only one trying to make it work.

For a relationship to thrive, it involves two people working together and being there for one another. The major elements that women want in a relationship are affection, attention, honesty, and trust. We don’t ask for much.  I can’t be mad at the past because those not so good moments allowed me to realize what I want. I know my worth. If he can’t, give the relationship 100% then no need to waste precious time. It’s hard to let go after you put in years on wanting to make things work. I no longer regret the past because it was lessons for me to learn. The waiting process is not easy, but I refuse to settle for something I really don’t want.

Be encourage ladies; the right one is coming. Focus on the positive things you want out of a relationship, and before you know it, Mr. Right will arrive. Keep believing and have faith. I know I am!

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Dear Cupid,

Dear Cupid,

Be Humble

Be Humble